Lesson Learn:God’s gifts and God’s call are under full warranty....

I never understood the saying “The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away; may the name of the LORD be praised.” (Job 1:21). Yes praise the lord because you are in a battle with the devil but do not think for once that God has taking your gifts away.
But what if you have suffered loss? The temptation may be to blame God for your loss, as if God had a change of heart. But God is not fickle. He does not change like shifting shadows. He is an extraordinary giver who never takes back his gifts.  A girlfriend of mys' told me a story of her trial and tribulation to keep a job when the devil was trying to take her joy and her blessing that God had for her. Her testimony humbles me and also help me to realize that I often blame God for my lost and sorrows when instead asking him to form a shield around me and putting my faith in him because it was obvious that I was under attack by the devil not to receive the gifts he had in store for me.
 There a saying in the bible that “God’s gifts and God’s call are under full warranty – never canceled, never rescinded.” (Rms 11:29, MSG)
So if God is doing the giving, who is doing the taking? Again, God provided the answer through Jesus:
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” (Joh 10:10)
Meaning we ought not to be confused about these two different roles. One is a giver, the other is a taker. If you have been given something good, then give thanks to God. But if you’ve been robbed, do not blame God. He is not behind your loss.

So I have to remind myself and others should as well that God did not kill your love ones. He did not steal your livelihood and make you sick. You’ve been robbed! The devil is having a go at you. Do not sit there in the ashes and cry about it, get up and fight! Are you a warrior or a weakling? Are you a victor or a victim?”
If you think that God gives and takes away, then you have more faith in karma than grace I know I once did. Karma says what goes around comes around. If you are healthy now, you will likely be sick tomorrow. If you are prospering now, poverty’s waiting just around the next corner. When disappointments and hardships come, you will not be surprised. You will just throw in the towel and say, “I knew it was too good to last.” That is why I can only be around positive thinkers and fighters and not debbie downers and depress people because they have gave up on the battle of fighting the war. Like my husband states nothing good comes easy…you might have to fight for what you have. So here is to team fighter and congrats to my friends for not allowing the devil to steal her joy by fighting and keeping her faith.

Message to Woman.....

I am going to say this as a woman a lot time we meet a man we want so much to be happy. We want so much to be in a relationship and to have the white picket fence and all the stuff romantic movies tell us we should have. But reality is you have to take your time when you meet a man especially when you get older because you get to an age that you do not want to deal with the BS. You should want a man that has his stuff together, knows how to treat a woman, who has a lot of confidence in himself, has a career, who not having issues about whom he is and needing to mature as a man. I know I got to a place where I wanted to be love and respected and most woman do. A lot time we rush and we allow what between are legs to dictate what really need to be done. A lot of time relationship starts off with passion and not enough time getting to know each other and some mistake passion for love. But once that’s over what do you have? Sometime I think couples who have so much together sometime needs to know what it’s like as a couple to have nothing. Then you will see how strong you are as a husband and wife when you have zero and your able to still hold it together….. a lot of time people think oh were married, but that person has to be your friend and someone who is your friend love you and respect you and will never hurt you because friends is a title most of the time that is earned with time.