Message to Woman.....

I am going to say this as a woman a lot time we meet a man we want so much to be happy. We want so much to be in a relationship and to have the white picket fence and all the stuff romantic movies tell us we should have. But reality is you have to take your time when you meet a man especially when you get older because you get to an age that you do not want to deal with the BS. You should want a man that has his stuff together, knows how to treat a woman, who has a lot of confidence in himself, has a career, who not having issues about whom he is and needing to mature as a man. I know I got to a place where I wanted to be love and respected and most woman do. A lot time we rush and we allow what between are legs to dictate what really need to be done. A lot of time relationship starts off with passion and not enough time getting to know each other and some mistake passion for love. But once that’s over what do you have? Sometime I think couples who have so much together sometime needs to know what it’s like as a couple to have nothing. Then you will see how strong you are as a husband and wife when you have zero and your able to still hold it together….. a lot of time people think oh were married, but that person has to be your friend and someone who is your friend love you and respect you and will never hurt you because friends is a title most of the time that is earned with time.